I've recently discovered the excitement of link parties. It is tons of fun to see your post along side so many other creative ideas; about recipes, remodeling, crafting and just anything. And the traffic! So many new people have stopped by (thank you!) and I've added dozens of new blogs to my reader.
I've basked in the compliments of kind strangers and have been encouraged to keep putting my random thoughts to paper (err... keyboard) whenever someone says they laughed at what I wrote. Some people are fueled by controversy; they blog to foster debates. My fuel comes from hearing that so-and-so tried my recipe, or you-know-who thought a post was funny, or whats-her-name tried a craft after reading one of my poor tutorials. (And really, I never truly write tutorials. Only ideas. You'll have to figure out how to make it work for you.) And, of course, I am fueled by my own need to say what I want, when I want, on the great internets.
So that was the Good.
What about the Bad? The Bad is my conscience. I feel like it is only polite to return a follow, and it's become a habit to visit a blogger that has visited me. Very time consuming, but interesting. And when I do visit another blog, and find that I just don't enjoy it enough to actually subscribe, I feel guilty. Yes. I feel guilty about offending a total stranger by NOT subscribing or commenting. Especially the little bloggers, like me. And they probably don't even notice. I need to get over that. I'm working on it.
The Ugly refers to those blogs that drive me bananas. There is a silver lining to visiting bad blogs; I know what I don't want to do with my own blog.
I absolutely abhor blogs that use centered text.
You know what I'm talking about. It's those stories that
are several paragraphs long, pages long, and the entire thing is written
like a poem that never ends, centered like this.
I can't stand it and won't even finish reading,
no matter how damn interesting it is.
And MUSIC! Don't do it people! Just because you love Kenny G does not mean that I do. And if you're trying to entice me to stick around long enough to comment or enter a giveaway... it's not going to happen.
Lets talk about fonts. I LOVE cute and artsy fonts. For logos and buttons and blog titles. But not for the body of your text. My eyes will cross. Permanently. Nobody wants that, right?
What about playing 'hide the subscribe button'? If it's not right in your sidebar, near the top... chances are I will not have the patience to find it. And what if I really wanted to find it? I'd be awfully disappointed.
Now, onto commenting. Disable the CAPTCHA. Please. I'm begging.
Advertisements. Most of us have tried, are going to try or are currently monetizing our blogs. The wave of the future? Not really, it's happening NOW. But a blog cluttered with ads is such a turn-off.
Sooo.... you're probably wondering how or why I am qualified to make such claims about what is good, bad or ugly in blogland. Truth is, I'm probably not. I'm sure there are all sorts of official resources citing facts about what 'the people' prefer to read or see. I only know about THIS person, and how she likes her blogs served (over easy).
OVER AND OUT, INTERNETS! HAPPY SUNDAY!